Confidence

Why are some girls able to wander around almost completely in the nude and other girls of equal beauty unable too? 

Can a women have too much confidence? Yesterday I was sitting in my fave Shoreditch coffee house watching the world roll by and the most average looking women entered the café and queued for her coffee but she really did light up the room. A phrase often used but rarely lived up to. This wonderful creature simply oozed confidence. It some how transformed her she was not brash or loud simply well dressed, polite and deliberate in her actions perhaps it was a show but OMG girls did it work!

That got me thinking as everything seems to these days what is female confidence - where does the 

lad-ette live in the spectrum and can a tgirl be confident? 

Would I sunbath topless - yes I have done so but I am not sure I would do so openly? 

I really admire this women - but is her confidence derived from her external beauty or an inner self belief? 

For me the better dressed I am the more femm I feel which makes me feel more confident does this resonate with you all?